From Surface to Core – A Trauma‑Informed Toolbox for Navigating Mediation Impasses
Karl DeSouza
[2025] Asian JM 29
Abstract:
Trauma is not only a clinical concept; it is a relational and systemic reality that can show up subtly or overtly in mediation. Mediators may encounter impasse, not solely due to positional rigidity, but because of unspoken histories, ruptured attachment patterns, or dysregulated nervous systems. This article explores how integrating a trauma‑informed perspective can support deeper, more sustainable shifts in conflict resolution. Rather than presenting a singular framework, the article offers a series of interrelated approaches, each grounded in neurobiology, attachment theory, and restorative practice. Each part of the article stands as a self‑contained framework, offering insight into different facets of trauma-responsive practice such as nervous system regulation, attachment patterns, co‑regulation, narrative coherence, and the importance of pacing and presence. Collectively, these approaches expand the mediator’s capacity to move beyond surface settlement towards deeper human attunement, particularly in emotionally charged or complex disputes. The hope is that, in offering these fragments of practice, from regulation and co‑regulation to meaning-making and narrative repair, mediators find grounding, insight, and space for reflection.